Strengthen Your Relationship with
Gottman-Informed Therapy

Every relationship experiences ups and downs, from moments of disconnection to persistent arguments or a general sense of distance. If you and your partner are feeling stuck, overwhelmed by conflict, or simply yearning for deeper emotional intimacy, couples counselling can provide the tools and support you need.

I am a Level 2 Gottman-trained couples therapist in Langford, BC, dedicated to helping partners strengthen their connection, rebuild trust, and improve communication. The Gottman Method is grounded in decades of research and provides practical, evidence-based tools that support couples in creating a relationship that feels emotionally secure, resilient, and built on mutual respect and understanding.

Is Your Relationship Facing Challenges?

It’s completely normal for couples to experience friction or periods of uncertainty.

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You may find yourselves:

Caught in repetitive arguments that never seem to resolve
Struggling to communicate without defensiveness or criticism
Feeling emotionally disconnected or experiencing a loss of physical and emotional intimacy
Navigating the fallout of betrayal, broken trust, or infidelity
Feeling more like roommates than romantic partners
Under stress from parenting responsibilities, caregiving, or significant life transitions

These challenges are common—and more importantly, they’re workable. With the right support and tools, many couples emerge from these experiences with a stronger, more secure relationship than before.

What is Gottman-Informed Therapy?

Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy rooted in over 40 years of clinical research. It focuses on strengthening the foundation of a relationship through:

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Deepening emotional connection and friendship
Building practical communication skills that foster openness and honesty
Managing conflict in healthy, constructive ways
Rebuilding trust and fostering shared meaning in your partnership

I use structured assessments and evidence-based interventions tailored to your unique relationship dynamics. Together, we’ll work on replacing ineffective or damaging patterns with healthier, more supportive habits.

What to Expect in Couples Counselling

Couples therapy is a collaborative journey, where both partners are supported equally in a safe, judgment-free space. Whether you’re new to therapy or returning after a break, you’ll find a process designed to help you reconnect, repair, and grow.

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In our sessions, we will:

Strengthen emotional intimacy and mutual understanding
Learn and practice effective communication and repair techniques
Manage disagreements without escalation or emotional shutdown
Clarify your shared values and long-term relationship goals
Create daily rituals and habits that foster trust and closeness

This is not about blame, it’s about rediscovering how to work as a team, and rebuilding a relationship where both partners feel seen, heard, and valued.

Take the First Step Toward a Healthier Relationship

Whether you’re working through a painful rupture or proactively building a more connected future, Gottman-informed couples counselling offers a roadmap to deeper intimacy, improved communication, and long-term resilience.

I offer a free 15-minute consultation to help you decide if this approach is the right fit for you and your partner. It’s an opportunity to ask questions, share your concerns, and get a feel for what working together would be like.

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“It’s not how much you love each other, but how you resolve conflict that determines the success of your relationship.”

– Gottman Institute

FAQs About Couples Counselling

Gottman-Informed Couples Therapy in Langford, BC

Every relationship is unique, and so is the journey through couples therapy. These frequently asked questions are here to offer insight into how the process works and how it might help you reconnect and grow.

What is Gottman-informed couples therapy?

Gottman-informed therapy is a research-based approach developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. It focuses on strengthening your relationship through improved emotional connection, better communication, conflict management skills, and rebuilding trust. The method is grounded in over four decades of scientific research into what makes relationships succeed or fail.

How can couples therapy help us?

Improve communication and reduce defensiveness or criticism
Rebuild trust and repair after betrayals or emotional injuries
Strengthen emotional and physical intimacy
Navigate parenting, caregiving, or major life transitions
Reconnect if you’re feeling distant or “more like roommates”

The goal is not to assign blame, but to help you reconnect as a team and create a more resilient, fulfilling relationship.

Is therapy only for couples in crisis?

Not at all. While many couples do seek help during a crisis, others come to therapy proactively—to strengthen their bond, deepen their understanding of one another, or build better tools for long-term success. Think of it as relationship maintenance or growth work, not just damage control.

What can we expect in a session?

How to communicate more effectively and resolve conflict constructively
Practical tools for emotional repair and reconnection
How to identify shared goals, values, and meaning
How to create daily habits and rituals that promote trust and intimacy

We’ll use structured assessments and evidence-based techniques tailored to your unique relationship dynamics.

What kinds of relationship issues do you work with?

Constant or unresolved arguments
Emotional disconnection or lack of intimacy
Trust issues, including infidelity or betrayal
Stress from parenting, caregiving, or life changes
Feeling disconnected or like you’re just co-existing

No issue is too big or too small to bring to therapy.

Where are you located?

I offer in-person Gottman-informed couples therapy in Langford, BC, serving clients from across the West Shore and Greater Victoria area. Online sessions may also be available depending on your preferences and needs.

Do you offer a free consultation?

Yes! I offer a free 15-minute consultation so you can ask questions, share concerns, and decide whether working together feels like a good fit. It’s a no-pressure way to see if couples counselling is right for you.

How long does couples therapy take?

It depends on your goals and the challenges you’re facing. Some couples benefit from just a few sessions, while others choose to engage in longer-term work. We’ll collaborate to create a plan that makes sense for both of you.

Is it too late for us to get help?

It’s almost never too late. Even couples who have been together for decades and are facing serious issues—like infidelity or near-separation—have found meaningful healing and reconnection through Gottman-informed therapy. If you’re both willing to show up and engage in the process, change is absolutely possible.

How do we get started?

Simply reach out to book your free 15-minute consultation. We’ll talk briefly about your needs, and if it feels like a fit, we can schedule your first full session. Taking that first step is a powerful act of commitment to your relationship.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

Schedule your 15-minute complementary consultation
to see if we’re a good match.

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Strengthen Your Relationship with Gottman-Informed Therapy